October 22, 2005
Attraction in action
Of course I have lots of stories to tell, but this one time I was in a nightclub in KL, Malaysia. I remember talking to the only other American guy in the club who was from Philadelphia, and I told him that it is hard to explain but Indian women are always attracted to me. Of course maybe you can guess what happens right afterwards.
While I was still talking with him this hot young girl (about 20) comes up to me and I tell them, “I’ll talked to you later” as we go off towards another part of the club. It was mostly men in the club anyways. She was actually Sri Lankan but I had to let her go after she started talking about puppy dogs and ice cream and she was begging me to stay and to go to the dance floor again with her but I had to cut off the baggage and move on to another nightclub. (Learn to ‘walk away’ especially if you don’t like the way things are going).
Interestingly enough, I went to set up a VIP relationship at the Beach Club across the street and as it was over and people were streaming out there was this guy talking to me about the women he had ‘waiting’ for me. I told him, “Dude, I don’t have to pay to get women.”
It was like the law of attraction and my reality was in full effect. Stumbling out of the club comes a woman right up to me and she says, “Where are you going?” And I said, putting my arm around her, “I’m going with you” and I led her away. I guess that guy was left a little dumbfounded but I didn’t look behind.
We went to another club which I did not know about and there was this hot white girl there who was especially interested in me because I already had another woman and was not putting off creepy vibes towards her. Women want to be attracted TO you not away from you.
I had already made my decision who I was going to be with that night but I got her number as well but ended up too busy (ahem) to even have enough time to hang out with her and her friend.
Throughout more time I will be the man who can teach you how to get women in nightclubs because I am a promoter, so look for those information products in the future (model magnet).
In fact I feel a little weird about sharing my stories, because I have only shared some of them with my best friend before (and I used to think a gentleman does not discuss such things), but now I realize that I can help a lot of guys out by opening up and giving valuable information from my own experiences and insight in order to help them become more successful with women and lead a lifestyle that they deserve and want.
The main things to learn from this little mini lesson (and there are a lot more details to that story, it was a crazy night) is that you must really live in your own reality and not be afraid of women.
Women love a man who is honest with them and can make a decision upfront, that way they can decide whether they want to open up to a relationship with them (even a one night stand). Did I act like a little wussy when she came stumbling out of the club?
No, I immediately put my arm around her and set up the framework of our newfound relationship and directed her to leave with me. This all happened in about a matter of 15 seconds total and she was mine. One thing I did to accelerate the relationship was going to different places.
As Dave D. says, this can be known as the ‘mini-date’. I think you can understand how this will accelerate the relationship when you have already completed a mini date or two, it feels like you have already known each other and been in each other’s presence in a few different places.
Even after that club we went to another really loud underground club until the break of daylight and guess where we went after that? Yes, we went to the petting zoo.
One other thing is you have to be fully congruent and comfortable with who you are and what you want. If you can just be like this around any and all women and fully live in your own reality, you will find out that some of the hottest women will be so relieved that you are not intimidated by their looks. Having great stories to tell and memories to relive should be a part of your life! Love adventure and share that with women.
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