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Never before have I written one of these “help” letters. I feel silly, but sometimes an outside opinion is best.

Tracee had just gotten out of a failing relationship. The day after she broke up with the guy, we went out on a date. Things went well, but I cautioned that if she needed to take time to get over the breakup, to please take it. She declined all three times I asked.

We did a lot together. She would call to talk to me all the time. All advances were made by her, other than the fact that I planned a whole day for her birthday. About six weeks into it she asked me to be her boyfriend. I was hesitant, but felt that if she asked she must really want to be with me. I agreed. But some days later she told me she was confused, hasn’t had time to herself, and wanted to meet new people (she’s 20 and I’m 22), but didn’t want to hurt me so she felt it was best we just played the dating scene for a while.
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First I want to say that I’ve been a fan of your weekly letters for some time and applaud what you have created. Finally, men have the tools to succeed with women. But despite all the wisdom I’ve acquired, there is one problem I’m still having, which I guess shouldn’t be a problem to begin with. As typical as it seems, I really have no idea what to do or how to stop it. Here’s the situation.

About a year ago this summer, I was finishing my last semester in college where I had to study abroad. The group I was traveling with there was very small and consisted mostly of women. There were some very attractive females and I was able to get the one that captivated me, thanks to what I learned from “The System.” (Read the article)

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I am new to your website and just recently ordered and received your book. My situation is this: I’ve just been dumped after a year-and-a-half-long relationship with someone I work with. Even though I didn’t know about your techniques two years ago when Sophia and I became friends, I played it cool and apparently was a total Challenge even though Sophia is stunning to look at, because within three months she’d dumped the guy she was with and became my girlfriend with very little effort on my part.

I was suspicious, however, as I’d pried enough information out of Sophia to know that she’d left every relationship she was ever in for a new guy. I even joked with her about not wanting to be the next chump, and actually held my Interest Level to about 75% for the first six to eight months. However, I had an online dating ad that I’d used previously, but not while we were dating. Sophia saw it on my computer browser and went ballistic. I apologized to her (I know — groveling, very bad!) and in that moment the Interest Levels in our relationship completely switched. Mine shot up to 95% and hers dropped to 70% or lower. The long slide to below 40% took a year for Sophia, and of course my level of interest increased to compensate (which I now know had exactly the opposite effect on her). (Read the article)

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I’m 22 and I’m dating a 38-year-old woman. Janine and I met in a bar, talked for a long time and ended up getting very romantic very quickly. Every time we see each other the same thing happens — we talk about everything, her hopes and her fears, the future, what we want in life, we laugh a hell of a lot — then it’s followed by romance, we spend the next day together and so on. It’s really been great, since our personalities complement each other really well. (Read the article)

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I’m just getting back into the dating scene after a two-and-a-half year relationship and I’m a little rusty. I was familiar with your advice and a follower of your articles prior to my last relationship, but didn’t need to use them due to my ex’s constant attention regardless of what I did.

Recently I’ve been dating online and have had decent success in acquiring dates. Camille is one of them. But she’s a tough read and doesn’t initiate contact. Normally I don’t like to be the only one initiating contact. In addition, she’s the type of woman that everyone praises lavishly for her beauty. (Read the article)

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I have been a fan of yours for a long time, and you have helped me tremendously with my current girlfriend, who I’ve been going out with for seven months.

Sarah Jane happens to be beautiful, smart, funny, and, did I mention, gorgeous? She’s easily the best girl I’ve ever had. We have a great time whether we’re playing volleyball or taking a cooking class. Plus, this girl always makes laugh. Even when she’s dressed down in something like a sweat suit and sneakers she looks like a model. And to top it all off, she’s just as beautiful on the inside as she is on the outside. She’s a Flexible Giver and not at all hardnosed or structured. I couldn’t find a better catch if I tried for a hundred years. (Read the article)

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